"Come, Come!"
First week at Missionary Training Institute: there are 25-30 students, all of us heading to our mission fields in the next few months.
We've had several sessions on adjusting to new cultures. Yesterday, after lunch, we came back to our classroom to find the doors barred and the windows covered. We were informed that we were entering a new culture and to be aware of the "knee-jerk" reactions we feel throughout the experience. Our teacher turned into a gruff gov't official who only knew a few words in English. We were told to "Come, come!" To line up, no talking, march in single file. The classroom had been turned into a complete wreck, tables, chairs, and trash strewn everywhere. Signs on the wall said, "Be silent", "Women at the back", "Fill this out in no more than 3 min." We women moved to the back and stood around, not sure what form was to be filled out. After several long, awkward minutes someone started uprighting tables and chairs, thinking it was better to do something than nothing. We started picking up trash, hoping to find some kind of form. Finally a "form" started circulating that was written backwards with questions that made no sense. We tried our best. "You..come,come." The "gov't officer" lined us up and we filed out.
Whew! Though no specific place or culture was being simulated, we definitely experienced being out of our "comfort zone!"..not knowing what to expect or what was expected of us.
One of the thoughts that drive the philosophy of MTI is "What you don't know about yourself controls you." How we reacted during this simulation, may be a hint of how we'll react in the midst of real cross-cultural situations; and the more we can be aware of, the less "shock" we'll feel in culture shock.
So how did I react? What did I learn about myself? Knowing there was no real danger, I was just nervous. Actually, I wanted to giggle and make goofy comments to make others giggle to lighten the awkward feeling. I would have too, if I hadn't been afraid of possible consequences of breaking the "be silent" rule. I've heard some Tanzanians react the same way when they're nervous- laughing. Maybe I'm more African than I thought! :-)






